Manhood Training with Lenon Honor Part 12
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In this video I talk about how to approach women. Young men must understand that when you approach women you have to have respect. Respect is very important because it set the tone for your interaction with women. Older men must do a better job at teaching young males how to respect women in general. This respect should also apply to women who a young man may be interested in meeting.
Many young males have not been taught how to respect women. Most women feel threatened or insecure when men approach them aggressively. A young man can go and ask a woman if this is true. If a young man had another man come up to them aggressively the young man will feel threatened, insecure, and fearful. So why would a young man want to approach a woman that way? I have seen many men approach women aggressively and I know that my daughters will have to experience this from aggressive men. This behavior is disrespectful and predator. You younger men must ask yourself, “What is my approach? Am I being respectful?”
Young men you must understand that you must approach women with intelligence. If you are approaching women aggressively like a beast that is subject to its carnal nature, then function as a sexual predator. When you approach women with patience and respect then you are subject to your spiritual nature which is rooted in intelligence. Understand that there is nothing wrong with having sexual attraction to a woman. It is part of our animalistic nature. But we must understand that our animalistic nature is not concerned with future repercussion or future consequences. The animalistic nature is concerned with survival. However, the man in you, the spiritual aspect of you, the intelligent aspect in you, it considers future consequences. This level of intelligence should be applied to how a young man approaches women.
There are some males who do not look at the woman’s intelligence. Instead they only look at the woman’s body because the woman’s body is the vehicle through the male can procreate. This too is part of the animalistic nature. The problem is that this orientation to women does not increase the probability that the male will be able to create a positive relationship with a woman. This predatory orientation towards women will decrease the probability that the male will be able to create a positive relationship with woman. This predatory orientation increases the probability that the male will create many baby mamas and that the children that are born out of these predatory experiences will suffer.
Part of the issue is a lack of responsibility and a lack of sexual discipline. A man who is irresponsible will not consider the future consequences of his sexual behavior. A man who lacks sexual discipline will engage in promiscuous sexual behavior that creates future consequences that are not only self-destructive but also harmful to the women that he has sexual relationships with and is extremely damaging to the children that are create through such relationships. The irresponsible and undisciplined man should not blame women for the materialization of such a consequence. Instead he must come to understand that he was the one who placed his penis into the woman’s vagina. The woman did not place her vagina into the man’s penis. The man was the one who placed his penis into the woman’s vagina without using a condom. The woman did not force him to place his penis into her vagina. The woman did not ejaculate into the man’s penis. The man ejaculated into the woman’s vagina.
This is why young men must be responsible for what they do with their penis and they must develop sexual discipline so that they are extremely selective about who they have sex with, when, how, and under what circumstances.
Young men must understand that part of being personally and sexually responsible means that you must take measure to ensure that you do not impregnant women without careful consideration as to the consequences of impregnation. Young men must also take measure to use the appropriate birth control measures so that he does not become a “baby mama creator”. Such measure will also protect against sexually transmitted diseases.
When I was 17 I used to have sex with my girlfriend a lot and we used a condom only once. I was sexually irresponsible. Young men must think intelligently about sex. Young men must be responsible enough to keep themselves protected.