Is It Wise To Hold On to People Who Are Happy With Their Unhappiness?
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There are people who are happy with their unhappiness and these are the people that you should avoid.
It can be a challenge to find happiness. Sometimes we may reach a level of happiness and we may do something, say something, or think something that diminishes our level of happiness. Sometimes other people may diminish our level of happiness by what they say to us, do to us, or how they think about us.
Since happiness and peace can be difficult to find it becomes important that we preserve our happiness. We can do this by limiting the amount of external influences that adversely affect our levels of happiness.
There are different levels of happiness. Some people are content with lower levels of happiness and they are happy with those levels of happiness. Some of us want to experience higher levels of happiness and in order to experience these levels of happiness we protect the levels of happiness that we already have and build upon them.
Love is not one thing. Love is the evolution of many different things. Love is the ascension of many things.
There are some people who are happy with their unhappiness. They may perceive their own unhappiness as a form of happiness and they are happy with their unhappiness. It is ok to avoid such people.
There are people who say that you have to deal with everyone. This is not true. It is a choice in the end. Do you have to deal with someone who is happy with their own unhappiness? No. It is a choice in the end.
When you accept the abuse of others you enable them to continue to abuse you. When you hold on to those who are happy with their unhappiness then they will continue to abuse you and you will become unhappy. It is a choice between maintaining your peace or maintaining your own unhappiness.
Why is it that we tend to be loyal to those who bring with us suffering?
Why is it that we tend to be loyal to those who are happy with their unhappiness?
When we hold on to people who are happy with their unhappiness we empower them to continue to be unhappy. You also enable them to continue to harm you.
It is not your job to make the person who is happy with their unhappiness happy. And there is nothing that you can do to make them happy.
The person who is happy with their unhappiness may perceive unhappiness as happiness and as they deal with you they may think they are bringing you happiness but what they are bringing is pain, suffering, and unhappiness.
The person who is happy with their unhappiness may say that they want change but what they want is what they already have which is their own unhappiness.
You cannot love others when you have not learned to love yourself. If you truly love yourself you will not allow people to abuse you including those people who are happy with their unhappiness.
What you are responsible for is your own happiness. As you let go of people who are happy with their unhappiness other people will come into your space who are ascending their own happiness. These are the people who will positively contribute to your own happiness.
The only thing that we achieve when we try to help people who are happy with their unhappiness is our own unhappiness.
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